WHAT HAPPENS WHEN U GIV 2 MUCH 2 SOMBODY

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN U GIVE 2 MUCH 2 SOMEBODY
I BELIEVE IN GIVING BUT SOMETIMES I EXPECT A LITTLE BIT
IF I AM GIVING TOO MUCH.
WITH FRIENDS, IF I GO OUT WITH A FRIEND AND HE PAYS 10
TIMES. I FEEL I MUST PAY AT LEAST ONCE. INFECT I
USUALLY LIKE TO PAY WHENEVER I CAN.
WHEN YOU GIVE YOUR LOVE TO SOMEONE “IT COULD BE YOUR
FRIEND, COULD BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND, AND COULD BE YOUR
WIFE.
MANY TIMES IT RESPOND IN THE SAME MANNER BUT ON FEW
OCCASION, YOU FELT YOU DID NOT GET THE EXPECTED
RESPONSE. IT COULD BE A CAUSE OF YOUR DIFFERENCES.
GIVING IS ONE OF THE MOST ESSENTIAL ATTRIBUTE IN ANY
RELATIONSHIP.
‘TRUE LOVE IS GIVING MORE THEN RECEIVING. YOU DON’T
COUNT HOW MUCH YOU HAVE GIVEN AND YOU ALWAYS
APPRECIATE WHEN YOU RECEIVE.’
“IT IS NOT GENUINE LOVE UNLESS THE GIVING FLAWS FROM
BOTH SIDES.”
BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN GIVER IS TANEN FOR GRANTED. IT
CAN BE BREAKING , DISTRESSING AND PHYSICALLY DAMAGING.
DOING TOO MUCH SEEMS NATURAL AND EVEN SOME WHAT
PLEASURABLE. AFTER ALL WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE YOU WANT TO
DO LOST FOR YOUR LOVED ONE. SO ARE’NT YOU SUPPOSED TO
GIVE YOU ALL?? ”NOT ALWAYS ESPECIALLY WHEN RECEIVER
DOES’NT KNOW ITS WORTH.”
ONE SIDED COMMITMENT SIGNALS DESPERATION IN A RELATION
SHIP. MEN WILL DO THIS BUT MORE OFTEN, IT’S A WOMEN
WHO WILL TAKE THIS STEP OUT OF SOME MIXED UP FEAR OF
LOOSING A MAN. IF SHE DOES’NT EVEN THOUGH HE HAS MADE
NO COMMITMENT WHATSOEVER. SHE IS READY TO FORSAKE ALL
OTHERS WITHOUT EVEN BEING ASKED. JUST TO PROVE HER
LOVE, HOPING THIS GESTURE WILL SOMEHOW BOND HIM TO
HER. IT DOES NOT.
GIVING TOO MUCH TOO SOON IS BY FAR THE BIGGEST MISTAKE
MADE BY BOTH THE PERSON BUT HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU
ARE GIVING TOO MUCH AND WHAT T DO ABOUT IT, WHEN ITS
OKAY TO GIVE YOUR ALL “YOU CANNOT PREJUDGE TO FIND OUT
IF THE PERSON IS GIVER.’
IT IS LONG PROCESS WHICH YOU WILL REALIZE ONLY AFTER
SPENDING ENOUGH TIME WITH THE OTHER PERSON.
SO, HOW DO YOU MAKE THE OTHER REALIZE THE IT IS A TWO
WAY TRAFFIC.?

‘TALK IT OUT WITH THE PARTNER AND SAY THAT, JUST YOU
ENJOY GIVING YOU WOULD APPRECIATE BEING ACKNOWLEDGE,
THAT IT IS NOT AN OBLIGATION BUT AN ACT OF LOVE.

IF DROPPING HINT DOSE’NT WORK, SHOULD ONE STOP GIVING?

IF THE GIVER FIND SATISFACTION, ITS FINE, IF
SATISFACTION WANES, ONE SHOULD STOP GIVING.
THE DANGERS OF A ONE SIDED GIVING ACCORDING TO ME IT
THAT……

“IT CAN LIMP A RELATIONSHIP, BOND MAY CONTINUE BUT THE
CHARM WILL WANE”

BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN BOTH GIVES?
IT IS A SATISFYING FEELING. YOU CAN FEEL IT WITH IN
YOU.

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Aaj hum bichare........
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DARD KE PHOOL . . .

Dard ke phool bhi khilte hain bikhar jaate hain,
Zakhm kaise bhi ho kuch roz me bhar jaate hain,
Dard ke phool bhi............
Us dariche me bhi ab koi nahin aur hum bhi,
Sar jhukaye huye chupchaap gujar jaaate hain,
Dard ke phool bhi............
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Koyi pooche ko kahen kya ki kidhar jaate hain,
Zakhm kaise bhi.......
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Pehli baarish me hi ye rang utar jaate hain,
Pehli baarish me........
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Zakhm kaise bhi ho kuch roz me bhar jaate hain,
Dard ke phool bhi............

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